Chasing Perfection? Do This Instead.

My name is Caroline, and I am a recovering perfectionist.

Growing up, I always felt pressure to excel at everything I did. I was the kid who always needed to set the curve on exams, win first chair in every audition, and get all A+’s in every class. If I couldn’t be the best at something, I usually gave up and quit.

Sports were a perfect example. Although I was a swimmer for most of my life, I was never the fastest. I grew to hate practice and resented the faster swimmers. Eventually I quit swim team and exercise altogether, which contributed in no small part to me gaining weight through the end of high school and my freshman year of college.

My perfectionist tendencies became even more problematic in my early twenties. When I started losing weight my sophomore year of college, I subscribed to several problematic nutritional dogmas. These diet plans restricted entire food groups and forbade me from eating outside narrow windows.

I was never able to stick with these plans for long. Each time I broke a rule, even if my infraction was small, I decided I might as well eat whatever I wanted the rest of the day. After a while, these binges started getting more and more destructive. Something had to change for the sake of my physical and mental health.

If you’re struggling with your weight, your eating or training, or your sense of self-worth, there’s a good chance you’re holding yourself up to the same impossibly high standards I once was. I encourage you to stop chasing perfection. Only by relinquishing some control and accepting that there’s no perfect plan can you finally make real progress toward your health and fitness goals.

Perfection is unattainable.

The first step to moving forward is to realize nobody’s perfect. We all know this on some level, but to truly accept and embrace it is extremely powerful.

There are many ways we chase perfection with our health and fitness goals, such as:

  • Attempting to follow a hardcore, 5-7 day per week training program that doesn’t work with your busy schedule.
  • Forcing yourself to perform the same heavy barbell lifts with the same loads you used to do as a teenager, but which leave you feeling beat up and exhausted now.
  • Following an ultra-strict diet with no wiggle room to navigate social situations or other contingencies.
  • Believing there is one best diet or training program and every other plan will give you such lackluster results they aren’t worth considering.

I hope you can see how all these approaches are problematic. It’s easy for elite athletes to build their lives around the most scientifically-optimized plan. For the rest of us, plans that demand perfection don’t work. We have unusually busy days at work, family emergencies, unexpected obligations, and active social lives. We need plans which give us space to navigate these situations and still be successful.

The most optimal diet or training plan for you is the one you can follow consistently while maintaining your energy, performance, and sanity. This means the way you eat and train has to be flexible and not overly restrictive. It’s better to do less but stick with it than to try and do too much and burn out.

Read more: You Don’t Need an Extreme Diet or Program

your eating and exercise plans should be realistic

Chasing perfection leads to all-or-nothing behavior.

When you’re chasing perfection, it’s easy to use “screw ups” as an excuse to go off the rails. Perfectionists get triggered by failure and overreact with harmful behaviors.

My struggles with binging and restricting are a great example. I ate a bit of forbidden food and then said “screw it” and jumped face-first into a pile of junk food I often didn’t even want. These binges did way more harm than the initial mistake ever did.

Instead of living and dying by a long list of strict rules, reduce your focus to just one or two behaviors at a time. I recommend picking things you’re confident you can manage. Once you’ve identified your current focus, let everything else go. You can always tackle more things once you’ve nailed your initial commitment.

If this freaks you out, take a deep breath and realize you have plenty of time to get to where you want to go. Breaking your goals into smaller pieces and getting rid of strict rules keeps you moving forward and prevents overwhelm and all-or-nothing behaviors.

Read more: Do Less to Do More

Active acceptance and self-compassion

If you’re anything like me, you may have a tendency to be overly hard on yourself. This is a hallmark of being a perfectionist – you beat yourself up when you don’t live up to your impossibly high standards. You may feel bad about yourself all the time, wondering why you’re unable to stick with your strict diet and workout routine. You think something is wrong with you, when the real problem is your perception and expectations.

A crucial part of moving away from perfectionism is to practice self-compassion. Just as you accepted that nobody’s perfect, accept that you can’t get everything right all the time. You’re going to screw up. The important thing is to learn from your struggles and keep taking positive action. Don’t use your slip-ups as an excuse to binge or skip the gym for weeks at a time.

Just because you’re practicing self-compassion doesn’t mean you have to love everything about your life just the way it is. My mentor Jill Coleman talks about “active acceptance.” This means you accept where you’re at right now – flaws and all – without judgement, but you’re still trying to move forward and improve. This is a great place to be if you’re trying to change your body or improve your health.

when we aim for perfect, like a bullseye, we set ourselves up for dissapointment
You don’t need to hit a bullseye to see progress.

If you’ve been chasing perfection in the gym and kitchen with little to show for it, consider another way. Chasing perfection sets you up for failure and keeps you from achieving your goals. Instead, choose a few manageable changes to tackle right now. Accept that everything else will stay the way it is for now, and that’s ok. You’ll experience much more long term success making small changes that stick rather than aiming to be perfect and always falling short.

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3 Things I’ve Changed My Mind About – Nutrition Edition

My relationship with food has been a roller coaster ride. After being overweight, I have lost weight, gained it, and lost it again multiple times. If you can name a popular diet, there is a good chance I tried to follow it at one point or another. These experiences, combined with years of working with clients, taught me many hard lessons about what really matters in nutrition.

I believe all the nutrition information floating around these days has actually done people a disservice when it comes to getting and staying in great shape. Most of us have too many rules we try to follow which sap our willpower and don’t leave us looking or feeling any better.

In my quest to pare back the steps it takes to live a healthy life, I work with clients to help them get rid of the BS and instead focus on the few factors which really move the needle: caloric balance, food quality, balance, and eating in a way you actually enjoy.

This week’s blog post shares 3 big ideas about nutrition I’ve changed my mind about since I began my own fitness journey. If you’re struggling to identify which food rules to follow and which to ignore, I think you’ll find this information helpful.

If you missed last week’s post sharing 3 training ideas I no longer believe, check it out here.

There are “good foods” and “bad foods.”

Almost everyone has a mental list of good and bad foods. Our bad foods lists vary widely and could include anything from fast food, gluten, dairy, sweets, carbs, fats, fruits, and meat.

When I was first dieting, I got swept up in some of the popular nutritional dogmas floating around the internet. At various times I followed a paleo diet, keto diet, carb backloading, intermittent fasting (more on this below), and did a Whole 30.

In retrospect, following these restrictive diets was very destructive for my long-term relationship with food. I always struggled with emotional and bored eating, but placing certain foods on a do-not-eat list took it to a whole other level. Now, these foods became even more appealing precisely because they were off limits. When I did break my strict rules (and it always happened eventually), I felt compelled to eat as much of these foods as possible all at once because I knew they would be off-limits again soon. This led to a battle with binging and restricting that I’m still working through.

These days, I’ve completely done away with my do-not-eat list. Instead, I follow a moderation-based approach. I can eat any food at any time, but I only eat enough to feel satisfied. This usually means eating just a few bites of a formerly forbidden food as opposed to gulping down as much as I could eat and not paying attention to how full I felt or if I even wanted to continue eating. Taking foods off a pedestal actually reduces my cravings because I don’t feel a sense of urgency to eat ALL the things at once.

Furthermore, much of the “science” behind restrictive eating plans is misleading. While it’s true our bodies behave in certain ways, there is a ton of individual variation regarding food tolerance. We all have different immune, digestive, and hormonal systems. Some people are very sensitive to many foods; others have no food sensitivities whatsoever. For example, I’ve learned I don’t have any negative reactions to eating gluten, even though some people report feeling dramatically better when they remove it from their diets.

There is no magic that happens when you follow a restrictive diet. In most cases, the impressive results you may experience happen simply because you’ve eliminated a lot of calories from your normal diet. You can achieve this same effect without the unnecessary suffering caused by highly restrictive diets. Additionally, the psychological benefits of taking a more moderate approach will continue to serve you long after you hit your goal.

Takeaway: You don’t have to remove certain foods or food groups from your diet just because someone else told you to. Experiment to learn about your body and decide which foods leave you looking, feeling, and performing your best.

You have to eat (or not eat) certain foods at certain times to see good results.

There are a lot of ideas surrounding the best time to eat (or not eat) certain foods. Here are a few ideas I once believed:

  • Breakfast is the most important meal of the day.
  • You should skip breakfast and fast for 14-16 hours each day.
  • If you don’t eat within an hour of your workout, you’ll lose all your training gains.
  • You should eat as little fat as possible on training days. On off days, eat as little carbs as possible.
  • Don’t eat carbs before bed.
  • Eat more frequently throughout the day to stoke your metabolism.

Reading all of these in a single list reveals just how silly this is. How can all of these ideas be true when some of them contradict each other? The answer is many of them are not true, or at least not important for every person at all times.

For elite athletes and physique competitors, nutrient timing is an important part of results. But at most, nutrition timing makes up about 10% of your results. It’s just not a big rock for most people. If you’re not consistently nailing your calorie balance, getting enough sleep, training hard, and eating mostly high-quality foods, it doesn’t matter when you eat.

Takeaway: Don’t worry so much about the most ideal time to eat. Instead, find an eating routine which controls calories, works with your schedule, manages hunger and cravings, and provides consistent energy and focus throughout the day.

Food issues are always about food.

I’ve learned through my coaching and personal experience that many times, issues with food are rooted in deeper psychological and emotional problems.

If you’ve been yo-yo dieting for many years without much to show for it, another diet is likely not the solution you need. Many people use food as a coping mechanism to deal with deeper personal struggles. Going on a diet treats a symptom rather than going after the root cause.

I used food for many years as a way to numb uncomfortable feelings like anxiety, boredom, and loneliness. Some of my clients have used food to exert control when they felt powerless to change other areas of their lives. There are a million reasons why we may have learned to use food to cope with or get through difficult situations.

If you truly want to change the way you eat, you need to realize these behaviors are no longer serving you. This requires you to get more in touch with your thoughts and emotions to determine what’s really going on. When you can more clearly notice and name your emotions, you can respond to them appropriately without food.

Mindfulness practices like meditation have helped me get more in touch with my feelings and recognize when I’m using food as a tool to blunt or numb uncomfortable emotions. Meditation was challenging for me at first – I’m a very wired person most of the time – but taking time to sit with myself without distractions has taught me to be less reactive to my feelings and environmental stimuli. Journaling can also be a helpful tool to get out of your head and look at things more objectively. (You can learn more about these and other tools in my Beat Emotional Eating blog here).

Takeaway: You may not need another diet. I encourage you to take some time to learn about yourself on a deeper level. Aim to be less reactive and rely less on food as a coping mechanism. Also, learn to get more comfortable in your skin. If you don’t like yourself now, you won’t like yourself 20 pounds lighter.

Food is an important part of life. We eat not only to survive, but also as a way to celebrate, try new things, and get in touch with our roots. If you’ve struggled with your relationship with food, or simply haven’t experienced success changing your body because you never know what advice to believe, there is hope for you. By filtering through the noise and learning to listen to your body, you can create a nutrition approach which balances calories, works with your lifestyle, and is enjoyable and fulfilling.

If you want some help figuring all this out, please reach out to me here.

3 Things I’ve Changed My Mind About – Training Edition

My gym background is steeped in heavy strength training. After a few months of stumbling around the weight room, I was exposed to powerlifting and fell in love with the sport. For years, I chased personal records in “the big three” lifts – the back squat, bench press, and deadlift. I loved heavy barbell training and was singularly focused on getting strong. I encouraged my partner to get involved and we trained for our first meet together. In short, I became an unapologetic meathead.

When I started working with clients, I wrote programs and coached through this powerlifting lens. I wanted everyone else to get strong and lift heavy weights. Even more so, I wanted them to feel the same way about this style of training as I did.

However, I quickly learned powerlifting wasn’t a good fit for everyone. Some people couldn’t master the form on “the big three” lifts no matter what we tried. Others didn’t seem as excited about heavy squatting, benching, and deadlifting as they did about other gym activities.

After thousands of hours working with many different types of clients, my training philosophy has grown and evolved. There are many ideas I felt strongly about in the past that I’ve partially or completely changed my mind about now. These days, although I’m still always learning, I take a more nuanced and open-minded approach.

This article is the first in a two-part series about things I’ve changed my mind about since I started my training career. In this first part, I take a look at my training style and philosophy. Next week, I will examine how I’ve changed my approach to nutrition.

Everyone should work toward barbell back squatting, benching, and deadlifting.

It’s easy to understand why I loved the back squat, bench press, and deadlift as a competitive powerlifter. I personally saw the most gains from these exercises and (thankfully) didn’t have any injuries or restrictions which prevented me from performing them safely.

These days, it’s rare I meet with a new client who is totally free from pain or injures. Many clients aren’t moving well when they come to me due to many hours of sitting each day and bad habits in their current exercise routine (sometimes even from forcing themselves to complete barbell lifts).

The reality is not everyone is cut out to train with a barbell. Barbells lock us into a single path, which doesn’t work for all bodies. It requires a great deal of mobility to safely perform the standard barbell lifts. People with cranky shoulders may not be able to comfortably hold a barbell on their backs to squat or complete a full bench press; people with bad backs and poor hip mobility will likely struggle to deadlift a loaded barbell from the floor.

I help my clients find exercises and implements that fit with their individual bodies. We then work to master those choices so we can eventually load them up with heavier weights. For example, one of my clients has a history of severe back problems. We will likely never be able to do any squatting with a bar, but have had success doing heavy squats loaded in the goblet and double front rack positions. I’ve had many clients complain that barbell benching bothers their shoulders, but they don’t experience any discomfort benching with dumbbells and a neutral grip.

I still think the barbell is a fantastic tool and one of the best, most efficient ways to move tons of weight. You just may need to use it more sparingly. Maybe you can bench with a barbell but need to use a trap bar to deadlift and kettlebells to squat. Maybe you can’t do any of “the big three” with a barbell, but you can perform heavy barbell hip thrusts, glute bridges, single-leg exercises, or Romanian deadlifts.

Takeaway: Get creative and find alternative ways to load the major movement patterns that feel more comfortable. You don’t need to use a barbell to build a strong and resilient body.

Isolation training is a waste of time.

I used to think people who performed curls, lateral raises, and the like were silly. Why would you waste your precious time with these exercises when squatting, pressing, rowing, and deadlifting gave you a much better training effect? Once again, I was viewing training though my meathead lens. I failed to understand people had goals in the weight room beyond getting strong, and that only training compound movements wasn’t necessarily the best way to achieve those goals.

I changed my tune on this topic when my own personal goals changed. I’ve previously written about my experience working with a trainer to build a leaner, more muscular physique. One of the lessons I mentioned in this post was that I didn’t see the changes I wanted in my arms and shoulders until I started training them more regularly. In the past, I had done a few cursory sets of arms and shoulders when the mood struck me. When I worked with my coach Bryan, I trained arms and shoulders multiple times per week. This big increase in volume allowed me to finally see noticeable, lasting changes.

Some lucky people can build awesome-looking arms, shoulders, legs, and butts from heavy compound training alone. Most of us, however, will need to add in extra work at some point if we want to see those muscles grow.

These days, I program some isolation training for a majority of my clients. I’m working with normal people and not pro athletes, and almost everyone who comes to me wants to look better and feel more confident in their skin. Most of our training time focuses on bigger, compound movements, but I add in curls, pressdowns, calf raises, shoulder raises, and similar exercises.

Takeaway: If your goal is to look jacked/ripped/toned/etc., you’ll likely need to do some isolation exercises. As long as these don’t make up the majority of your training time, you’ll get good results.

Machines are bad.

When I first started lifting, I had no idea what I was doing. A lot of the exercises I performed used machines because I was certain I could perform those correctly. Eventually, when I discovered free weights and powerlifting, my thoughts on machines swung to the totally opposite side. I hated machines and thought they were always a bad choice for everyone.

As with much of my approach to training, I now take a more middle-of-the-road approach. I believe machines can play a role in a well-rounded program for many people.

There are a few situations when someone may benefit from using a machine over a free-weight exercise. If someone is new to exercise and just making their way into the weight room, machines can be a good way to learn about the various muscles and use a challenging load without huge demands on their balance or posture. If new clients have a hard time getting up and down from a floor or bench, machines provide greater exercise variety.

People whose primary goal is to build muscle will likely use machines in their training. Machines can provide unique training angles or allow you to overload certain muscles more than you could with free weights. Machines also allow more advanced trainees to safely and easily use intensity techniques like drop sets, partial reps, and forced reps.

Finally, lots of my clients travel for work and frequently find themselves training in hotel gyms. Many times machines are the only weights available in these settings.

Takeaway: I still recommend everyone engage in plenty of free-weight training focused on the major movement patterns. But don’t be afraid to incorporate weight machines into your training when appropriate.

Always Be Open

Depending on your background, some of you may believe the same training dogmas I once did. Perhaps you have a few different ones of your own. I encourage you to think deeply about these ideas and question your assumptions. You will likely become a better coach to yourself in the process.

Check back next week to learn how I’ve changed my mind about the way I eat and the way I help clients manage their nutrition.

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What Runners Must Know About Strength Training

In college, my roommate and I joked that everyone became a runner each spring. People who never seemed to work out were all of a sudden donning running shoes and shorts and hitting the pavement. On beautiful spring days, the formerly abandoned lakefront park next to campus was filled with runners of all ages, shapes, and sizes.

Running is one of the most widely-practiced forms of exercise. It’s often held up as the gold standard of health and fitness – if you can’t run, are you really in shape? Running is a great way to get outside and enjoy sunshine and warm weather. And many people choose to enter races as a way to get their butts in gear and motivate them to exercise more regularly.

man running on open road with strong legs thanks to weight lifting

However, despite what you read in magazines and hear from your runner friends, running is not an easily accessible activity for many people. If you’re overweight, out of shape, or riddled with muscle imbalances, jumping into a running program without any preparation can lead to pain and injuries. One of the best ways to counteract these risks is to ensure you’re following a smart strength training program to complement your running.

Full disclosure: I’m not a big fan of running myself. Running has never felt good to me and I prefer to do my longer cardio on a bike or in a pool. However, I’ve trained dozens of runners over the years. I’ve helped multiple people remain healthy and feel strong while training for marathons, iron mans, and other long races. I’ve also helped people stay safe as they experiment with running for the first time or after a long hiatus. This article shares my thoughts on what four areas all runners should prioritize in the weight room.

Mobility

I know, I know. Mobility work is about as exciting as watching grass grow. However, with any physical pursuit, it’s important to ensure your body is moving as it should before you place it under load or stress. A good warmup gets your joints moving, activates key muscles you’ll need for training, raises your body temperature, primes your nervous system, and helps you connect all the different pieces of your body together.

A common misconception among runners is that static stretching is the best way to prevent injuries. In reality, static stretching isn’t very helpful. It feels good in the moment but does little to actually loosen you up or protect your body.

Instead of static stretching, focus on dynamic stretching. Dynamic drills are essentially moving stretches. This kind of work allows you to actually own and control various ranges of motion.

A good warmup should take 5-15 minutes. Start on the floor and work your way back to standing. I recommend all runners perform drills to warm up their ankles, hips, and glutes. I’ve included some of my favorites below. If you are dealing with super tight muscles or pain, you may also want to include a few minutes of foam rolling before you begin the rest of your warmup.

Posterior Chain

The posterior chain includes the muscles on the back side of your body. For our purposes, we will focus on the glutes, hips, and hamstrings. Building strength in these muscles is absolutely essential to keep you feeling healthy and strong as you increase your running mileage.

Many runners are quad-dominant. This means they use the muscles on the front side of their legs for everything. These muscles get very strong and tight, while the hamstrings, hips, and glutes stay weak. Over time this imbalance puts unnecessary wear and tear on the hip, knee, and ankle joints, leading to pain or injuries.

I recommend three steps to train your posterior chain. First, learn how to hip hinge. After you’ve mastered this fundamental movement, you can progress to more advanced hip hinge exercises like deadlifts, kettlebell swings, and good mornings.

Next, do some direct training for the glutes. The glutes are the biggest muscle in the body and the source of much of your power. There’s a reason why the world’s fastest sprinters all have big butts. I love weighted hip thrusts and glute bridges to directly train the glutes. You can load these exercises up with bands, barbells, and smaller weights.

Finally, include some leg curls in your weekly training program. Strong hamstrings will help prevent hamstring strains, especially if you’re going to be sprinting. Beginners should perform leg curls using a swiss ball. As you get stronger, experiment with leg curls using sliders and the TRX. Eventually, most runners should add in some weighted leg curls using a machine.

If you think you may be quad-dominant, I recommend laying off quad-focused exercises for a little while. Exercises like leg extensions, leg press, and even squats (performed without proper hip involvement) can reinforce bad habits and imbalances. For now, learn to use your hips properly and build strength in the exercises mentioned above.

Single-leg

Running happens on one leg at a time. Training in a single-leg stance ensures you have the strength and stability necessary to support yourself and safely absorb forces as you run.

Keep a few form tips in mind with any single-leg exercise. Always keep your knee in line with your toe. Think about pushing your knee out to the side if you struggle with this. Always drive through your heel and squeeze your butt hard at the top of each rep. This helps you turn on your glutes.

If you’re new to single-leg training, start with split squats and step ups. Next, progress to reverse lunges. Finally, try your hand at more advanced exercises like walking lunges, rear-foot elevated split squats, and single-leg squats.

Perhaps the best single-leg exercise for runners is the single-leg Romanian deadlift. This exercise is a double-whammy as it allows you to train on one leg and train your posterior chain. I frequently use this exercise with clients dealing with knee pain, but just about everyone should include some variation of it in their training.

Core training

The final piece of the puzzle is core training. Runners should include a healthy dose of anti-core exercises in their weekly training. Anti-core exercises train you to keep your torso stable as you move the rest of your body. This is exactly the way your core functions as you run.

There are three categories of anti-core exercises: anti-extension (resisting arching your back), anti-rotation (resisting side-to-side rotation), and anti-lateral flexion (resisting side-to-side bending). 

Read More: Core Training Beyond Crunches

If you’re going to focus on just one type of core movement as a runner, focus on anti-rotation. Good running form requires you to resist twisting from side to side as you swing your arms. If your core is weak, you won’t be able to do this and will waste a ton of energy.

The pallof press is my favorite anti-rotation exercise. Your goal here is to press the weight straight out in front you while keeping your posture perfectly square. You can load pallof presses with bands or cables and they can be performed standing, in half kneeling, or in tall kneeling.

If you’re a runner (or would like to be) and aren’t doing any strength training, you’re setting yourself up for problems down the road. A couple of targeted sessions in the gym each week will help your joints feel better and potentially increase your speed and endurance. Focus on training your posterior chain, use single-leg exercises, resist rotation, and don’t forget to include a smart dynamic warmup before you run or lift weights.

Squats and deadlifts are two of the best exercises for runners. If you want to get better at these great lifts, you need to download your free copy of my ebook Squat and Deadlift school.

I share my favorite form tips, troubleshoot common problems, and provide progressions to help you work toward (or supplement) barbell training.

I’m confident both novice and experienced lifters can use the book and accompanying videos to take their training to the next level.

6 Common Bench Press Mistakes

Every gym bro and broette knows Mondays are “International Chest Day.”

It’s super common to roll up to the gym for your Monday workout and see every bench press station occupied. For some people, this is one of the only workouts they do consistently. I’d venture to say the barbell bench press is the most beloved and popular exercise in many gyms across America.

Unfortunately, the barbell bench press is also one of the most frequently butchered exercises at the gym. I’m always impressed when I see a strong, stable, and well-executed bench press at a commercial gym. Most people use poor form, too much weight, and receive too much assistance from spotters.

Poor bench press technique combined with too much weight is a recipe for pain, injuries, and frustration. If you want to avoid these setbacks, or you simply want to fine-tune your bench press to see better results, keep reading for my solutions to the 6 most common bench press mistakes.

Mistake #1: Forcing yourself to use a barbell when it’s the wrong fit for your body

Not everyone is cut out to use a barbell on every exercise. Although barbells help you lift more weight than any other tool in the gym, they also lock your body into one position. If your limb lengths and leverages don’t line up perfectly with the barbell, using it can be awkward, uncomfortable, and put you at risk for injury.

If you have a history of shoulder or elbow pain, the standard barbell bench press may not be the best choice for you. Instead, you should use alternative variations to build horizontal pressing strength. I love the floor press and board press to train restricted range of motion chest presses for those with cranky shoulders. Dumbbell pressing is also a great option. Because you hold a weight in each hand, dumbbells allow for freer movement of your arms. You can twist your hands into different positions at different portions of the lift, which often alleviates shoulder pain. Dumbbells are also self-limiting, making it much less likely you will load up more weight than you can manage.

Mistake #2: Haphazard set-up

Anytime you’re attempting a heavy lift, it’s crucial to set up your body in the most stable position possible. I often see people lie on the bench, unrack the bar, and start pressing without any regard for what’s going on with the rest of their bodies. If this sounds like you, you’re leaving tons of strength on the table and setting yourself up for injury.

You should set up the same way no matter how much weight is on the bar. If you’re lazy with your setup during your warm up sets, you’ll struggle to maintain a tight and stable position when the load is heavy. Ultimately, your setup should become so well ingrained you don’t have to think about it.

Bench press setup starts with the feet. Although it seems counterintuitive, the legs are very important when pressing (more on this below). Create tension in the legs and hips by pulling your feet as far back as you can. Some people keep their whole foot on the ground, others lift up their heel and press into the balls of their feet. Unless you’re entering a competition with specific rules about foot placement, do what feels most secure to you.

Next, be sure to pack your shoulders. Unlike most other upper body exercises, bench pressing requires you to lock your shoulder blades in place throughout the movement. This keeps your shoulder joint safe and allows you to recruit the bigger muscles of your upper body – the pecs and lats. To pack your shoulders, pull your shoulder blades together toward your spine. You should feel like you have a tight shelf of muscle supporting your upper back on the bench. This will also create a small arch in your lower back, which is totally normal.

Finally, be strategic when taking the bar from the rack. If you push the bar out of the rack, you risk losing the tightness in your upper back and shoulders. Instead, think about pulling the bar out of the rack. Bring the bar out over your chest and pause for a moment before initiating the movement.

Mistake #3: Hands and elbows in the wrong position

Keeping your joints stacked on top of eachother helps you manage loads safely. In the bench press, this means placing your hands on the bar so that your elbows track directly beneath the bar and you can maintain a vertical forearm.

Unless you are specifically using different variations like the close-grip bench press, your strongest pressing position occurs with your hands placed directly above your elbows.

proper bench press hand placement has the elbows directly beneath the hands
Top: Incorrect hand position. Elbows flare outside the hands.  Bottom: Correct hand position. Elbows track directly beneath the hands.

Another helpful cue to keep your joints stacked is to think about breaking the bar in half throughout the press. This prevents your elbows from flaring out to the sides and can help you keep your back engaged and your shoulders packed.

Mistake #4: Not using your legs

Barbell lifts are full body lifts. The bench press is no exception. If you aren’t taking advantage of leg drive as you press, you won’t be able to move as much weight.

Leg drive starts with properly setting your feet as discussed above. Next, think about driving your feet into the floor throughout each rep. This is especially helpful coming out of the bottom of the press. Just make sure you don’t use so much leg drive that your butt comes off the bench.

Drive your legs into the floor to help you bench press
Top: Correct foot position. Feet are pulled back and pressed firmly into the floor. Legs and hips are engaged.  Bottom: Incorrect foot position. Feet are placed randomly and lifted off the floor. Legs and hips are relaxed.

Mistake #5: Using incomplete range of motion

A true barbell bench press is lowered all the way to your chest, paused, and then pressed back up until you’ve locked out your elbows. This is not, however,  what I typically see people doing. Instead, people either fail to lower the bar all the way to their chest, they bounce the weight off their chest, or they re-rack the bar before they’ve fully locked their elbows. Unless you’re specifically training shortened range of motion (as with a board press or spoto press), always use as full of a range of motion as you can.  

Lower the bar all the way to your chest when benching.
Top: Incomplete range of motion. Bar does not reach the chest. Bottom: Complete range of motion. Bar touches chest. 

The main reason people use incomplete range of motion is because they try to press more weight than they can manage. If you think you’ll miss the lift if you lower it all the way to your chest, check your ego and remove some weight.

Alternatively, if you are unable to use a full range of motion, it may indicate that the barbell isn’t a good fit for you. If lowering the bar to your chest isn’t possible or causes pain, consider switching to limited range of motion presses (such as board presses). I’ve had a few clients with injuries that prevent them from fully extending their elbows; barbell benching would be a poor fit for these clients.

Mistake #6: Uncontrolled bar path

The final mistake I frequently see with the barbell bench press is an uncontrolled bar path. This can take several forms:

  • People lower the bar to their chest too quickly.
  • The bar wobbles around throughout the rep.
  • People press back toward their eyes too soon, lengthening the distance of the press.

As the weight gets heavier, it becomes more and more important to control the bar path. Even a slight wobble can throw you off enough to miss the lift.

To initiate the press, actively pull the bar down to your chest like in an inverted row. This helps you lower the bar in a straight line and recruits supporting muscles in your back and shoulders. After a brief pause in the bottom position, drive the bar straight up from your chest. There may be a slight J-shaped curve as you press the bar back toward your eyes, but keep this minimal. The less curve, the less distance you have to press the bar. Always aim to explode off your chest as powerfully as you can.

Smarter, Safer, Stronger

The barbell bench press is one of the most popular exercises at the gym. However, it’s crucial to use good form in order to stay safe and make better gains.

The six most common bench press mistakes are:

  1. Using the barbell even when it’s a bad fit for your body. If traditional barbell benching is uncomfortable or causes pain, experiment with dumbbell presses, floor presses, and board presses.
  2. Not paying attention to your setup. If you want a strong and stable press, create tension in your entire body before you unrack the bar.
  3. Incorrect placement of hands and elbows. Position your hands where they will stay directly above your elbows. Think about breaking the bar in half as you press.
  4. Ignoring leg drive. Always drive hard into your feet as you press to take full advantage of your legs.
  5. Incomplete range of motion. A good bench press is lowered all the way to the chest, paused, and then pressed back to elbow lockout. If you can’t do this, use less weight or choose another exercise.
  6. Uncontrolled bar path. A wobbly bar path adds distance to the press and makes it more likely you’ll miss the lift. Pull the bar to your chest and press it straight up.

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3 Strategies to Combat All-or-Nothing Eating

Let’s say you’ve been following your strict diet perfectly all week when your friends invite you to Sunday brunch. Although you’re nervous about finding menu items that fit your plan, you accept the invitation anyway.

When you get to brunch, you cave to peer pressure and order a bloody mary. Then you have a few bites of a shared fried appetizer. Your defenses are down and you’re mentally exhausted from a week of white-knuckling your eating.

After indulging in the drink and appetizer, you feel a wave of guilt. Since you’ve already “blown” today, you go all in on your favorite cheat foods. You order a heaping plate of pancakes and two more drinks. On the way home, you stop and pick up a pint of ice cream, which you eat mid-afternoon. When it’s time for dinner, you order Chinese take out and eat way past the point of fullness.

At the end of the day, you feel bloated, overstuffed, and riddled with guilt and disgust. You vow to resume your restrictive diet the next morning.

couple eating out at a restaurant

It’s easy to get caught up in this vicious cycle of restricting and binging. This rarely leads to success with your fitness goals; instead it almost always leads to decreased self-confidence, guilt, frustration, and an unhealthy relationship with food. If this story sounds anything like you, it’s time to try a different approach. Keep reading to learn my top three strategies to combat all-or-nothing eating.

Get rid of rigid rules.

One of the best ways to set yourself up for all-or-nothing eating is to set strict rules about what you can and cannot eat. If you struggle with this problem, don’t make any foods completely off limits (the exception here would be if you have a serious food intolerance or allergy).

As soon as something is forbidden, it becomes much more appealing. Indulging in just one of your forbidden foods can create a chain reaction leading to an all-out binge. These binges do way more damage than simply eating enough to satisfy your craving.

Instead of setting rigid rules, allow yourself to eat whatever you want, whenever you want. This can be scary at first, especially if you are someone who is constantly dieting. However, giving yourself the freedom to eat anything makes you reconsider your choices. Combined with mindfulness practices (more on this below), you will be more likely to eat only foods you truly want and stop when you’re satisfied.  

Another strategy is to have small amounts of “cheat” foods throughout the week. Jill Coleman calls this “preemptive cheating” and believes it can help moderate weekend eating. A preemptive cheat would be any less-than healthy food you enjoy such as chocolate, alcohol, fatty foods like cheese or butter, and carbs. Rather than telling yourself you’ll never eat your favorite foods again, allow yourself to eat just enough to make your meals taste good and to satisfy any cravings.

bowl of candy diet

Don’t take on too much at once.

Psychological wins are very important when building new habits. It’s crucially important to set yourself up for success early on in the process.

One of the surest ways to fail is to try to change everything at once. For example, if you are currently eating McDonalds for breakfast, skipping lunch, eating 2 heaping plates of food at dinner, and snacking on chips and ice cream before bed, attempting to overhaul your entire diet is likely to completely overwhelm you. After a week of trying to manage 20 new habits, the smallest slip-up may trigger a binge. This only fuels the vicious all-or-nothing diet cycle.

If you have a long list things you want to change, start with the one thing you are most confident you can manage right away. Slow, small improvements are easier to sustain and will build confidence in your ability to change. Accept that you’re not going to be perfect right away and acknowledge that you will surely slip up along the way. Give yourself permission to start small and grow to relieve some of the pressure that can cause all-or-nothing eating.

Slow down and sit.

My final strategy to combat all-or-nothing eating is to practice mindfulness. It’s easy to get swept away by uncomfortable emotions or to lose touch with what our body is actually trying to communicate. The best ways to get back in touch with these signals are to slow down and take some space every day to sit quietly with your thoughts.

Practice eating slowly and without distractions. Focus on the taste and texture of each bite of food and chew fully before swallowing. Put down your utensil between bites to breathe or take a sip of water. Stop eating when you are satisfied or when the food no longer tastes as good as the first few bites. Slowing down can help you take back control of your decisions around food and potentially interrupt the whirlwind of emotions that can fuel a binge.

If you do notice the self-talk or thoughts that precipitate a binge, do something to halt the process. Set a timer, find something engaging to occupy your mind, or call a friend or family member. Whenever possible, remove yourself from the situation tempting you to binge.  

Finally, establish some daily practices to connect you with your values and long-term goals. Keep a journal or spend time reflecting on how you’re feeling. When uncomfortable emotions come up, allow yourself to sit with them until they pass. This sounds cheesy but it actually works. When we learn to manage our emotions appropriately, we no longer need to use food as a coping mechanism.

mindfulness practices can help you lose weight and improve your health

If you struggle with all-or-nothing eating, you’re not alone. Many people are silently caught in this vicious cycle. The good news is there is always hope to move forward. Start by accepting you don’t need to be perfect to see results. Get rid of rigid food rules that set you up for failure. Focus on making sane and sustainable changes and give yourself room to make mistakes. Slow down when eating, identify and interrupt binge triggers, and spend time exploring yourself and your emotions. And always practice compassion toward yourself; building healthy habits is hard, but you have what it takes to see it through.

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Just Getting Back in the Gym? Start Here.

I’ll never forget how I felt when I first started working out. I was an overweight college student, frustrated about my perpetually low energy levels and extremely self-conscious about the way I looked. Although I was an athlete throughout much of my childhood, it had been years since I did any kind of regular exercise. I didn’t know how to properly take care of myself or what I should do in the gym. I felt lost, clueless, and overwhelmed when I first set foot in my campus rec center.

My first foray into regular exercise was to spend 30 minutes on the elliptical. Right away, I noticed an increase in my energy levels. However, I hated the elliptical and wasn’t consistent. I began enjoying training more when I ventured into the weight room. When I started lifting weights, I wrote down all the major muscles on a notecard and picked one exercise to target each one. Not exactly the most scientific approach, but it kept me coming back. Ultimately, I discovered better resources which sparked a deep curiosity for all things training and nutrition and led to a career as a fitness professional.

These days I work with many clients who are coming to the gym for the first time. I empathize with the fear and uncertainty that goes along with the decision to join a gym for the first time (or the first time in years). It shows a lot of courage to put yourself out there!

This week, I want to share the steps I would take if I was going to the gym for the first time (or after a long hiatus), knowing everything I know now. If you or someone you know is on the fence about starting to exercise because you feel lost or overwhelmed, this is the post for you. Read on to learn from my mistakes and get it right the first time.

Start Slow

The secret to long-term fitness success is consistency. If you commit to too much at once, you put yourself at risk for excessive fatigue, injury, and burnout. None of these are conducive to you returning to the gym week after week.

In my experience, the people who ultimately get the best results start slow. They honestly evaluate where they’re at and are realistic about how much they can handle. Over time, they build a routine filled with physical activities they enjoy that fit well with the rest of their life. This can only happen if you are patient and lay a solid foundation.

For example, while many people claim they want to come to the gym 4-6 times per week, most can realistically come only 2-3 times. The good news is, especially if you are really out of shape, you can get awesome results training just 2-3 times per week.

I recommend starting with 2-3 strength training days and 1-3 cardio days. You can perform cardio and strength within the same workout (that’s how the math works out – more on this below). Once you’re consistently crushing 2-3 weekly workouts, then you can consider adding in more training days.

Another initial obstacle to building a regular training routine is time. Many people don’t have an uninterrupted hour to train, plus the extra time needed to shower, change, and eat. However, it’s a mistake to think you need a ton of time to have a good workout. Many people just starting out would actually get better results if they cut their workouts down to 30 or 45 minutes. If you are especially crunched for time, you can train in as little as 10-20 minutes. Don’t let the lack of large chunks of uninterrupted time deter you from coming to the gym at all.

Finally, don’t throw too much stress at your body all at once. If you are returning to the gym after a long hiatus, your strength and conditioning levels will almost certainly be less than they were previously. Choose exercises and regressions that work with your current level of fitness. Use less weight, perform less cardio, and don’t go as hard as you used to, at least for a little while.

Strength Training

Although strength training should be your number one priority, it’s often the most intimidating part of coming to the gym. It’s helpful to work with a coach or trainer to learn the basics of lifting, if possible. A good trainer will follow the principles laid out below and help you develop the confidence to eventually transition out on your own. A workout buddy with a bit more experience than you can also do the trick.

Always complete a dynamic warm-up before you lift. Your dynamic warmup should include drills to mobilize and activate the hips, upper back, core, ankles, and shoulders. This should take 5-10 minutes.

New trainees should perform full-body workouts moving as much of the body as possible. The majority of your training should consist of compound movements such as squats, hinges (eg. deadlifts, pull-throughs, RDLs, swings), presses (eg. pushups, bench press, landmine press), pulls (eg inverted rows, bent over rows, chest supported rows, cable rows), and single-leg work (eg lunges, step ups, split squats, single leg deadlifts). Focus first on performing these movements correctly before adding weight.

A good place to start is to perform 2-3 sets of 8-12 reps of each exercise. If you can easily perform the exercise for 12 reps, add weight or increase the resistance on the next set. When in doubt, slow down and use less weight. Slowing down an exercise promotes good body awareness.

If you are new to the gym, start with bodyweight exercises. Add weight with bands, dumbbells, kettlebells, and cables as needed. Stay away from barbells until you’ve been consistently training for a few months. Barbells are a phenomenal training tool, but it’s easy to load up too much weight and hurt yourself if you haven’t first build a solid foundation of good movement and strength.  

Be sure to track your workouts in a notebook or on your phone. The first 3-6 months of training are an exciting time when most people make rapid progress. It’s difficult to keep track of everything you’re doing in your head, so write it down. Keeping a log also gives you something to look back over to evaluate your workouts and celebrate your progress.

Cardio

The second piece of the training puzzle is cardio. Although cardio is often the first thing people think of when getting back into the gym, it’s of secondary importance to strength training.

Start with just 10-20 minutes of cardio per session. Resist the temptation to force yourself to spend 30-60 minutes on a single piece of cardio equipment, as this is a recipe for boredom and burnout. You can always add in more cardio later once you’ve become more consistent or if your progress stalls.

Deconditioned trainees should pick lower-intensity modalities including treadmill walking, elliptical, and stationary bike. Fitter trainees can experiment with running (assuming you have no history of knee, lower back, or ankle pain), the stair master, and the rowing and skier machines. The most important thing is to pick a modality that you enjoy at least somewhat. Nobody can force themselves to perform cardio they hate for very long.

If you are combining cardio and weights, perform cardio at the end of your workout. You may want to warm up on a piece of cardio equipment before performing your dynamic warmup in the weight room, but keep it brief (2-5 minutes). You can also perform cardio as a stand-alone training session.

Now What?

Now it’s time to put everything together. Start by having a realistic conversation with yourself about how often and for how long you can train. Put these sessions directly in your work calendar so you take them seriously. Next, divide up your training between strength training and cardio, making sure to prioritize time in the weight room. Always perform a brief dynamic warmup before lifting weights. Your strength training sessions should be full-body and focus on compound exercises from each of the major movement groups. Keep cardio sessions brief at first and choose a modality you enjoy. When in doubt, do less and slow down so you can remain consistent. Be sure to track your progress so you can look back on how far you’ve come in the weeks and months to come.

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6 Cheap Things You Need to Build a Great Home Gym

I work with many clients who train exclusively at home. One of these clients – who hadn’t exercised regularly in years – made fairly steady initial progress using only his bodyweight.

Eventually, however, he hit a plateau and became frustrated. His progress slowed and he was getting bored with the limited exercises he could do.

Since joining a gym wasn’t an option for this client, I suggested he upgrade his home workout set-up with a set of bands and PowerBlocks.

Within a few weeks, he felt stronger and was noticing renewed changes in his body. He loved being able to push himself more and enjoyed the new exercises he could now perform.

Making a small investment in home exercise equipment put the spark back in my client’s training and helped him get out of a rut.

For most people who train at home, there comes a time when bodyweight exercises are no longer challenging and/or interesting. If you find yourself getting bored with your at-home workouts or dissatisfied with your progress, it may be time to upgrade your home gym.

The good news is you can do this at fairly low cost with minimal equipment. Continue reading to learn my top 6 equipment recommendations for at-home trainees.

Bands

Bands are the first piece of equipment I recommend for all my at-home clients. They’re cheap, lightweight, and easy to store and transport. With a bit of creativity, you can train every muscle in your body using bands.

You can purchase different types of bands including small and large circular bands as well as longer straight bands with handles. Some band sets come with a door mount mount and a strap to attach the band to your ankle so you can target your hips and glutes.

I recommend purchasing a set of bands of varying resistance levels. You will need different thicknesses to effectively train different muscles and movements, especially if bands are the only piece of equipment you have.

The one downside to bands is that by themselves, they may not be sufficiently challenging for stronger trainees. Some movements are also more awkward to load with bands than other types of resistance.

Sliders

Sliders are placed beneath your hands or feet to add resistance to lunges, pushups, leg curls, and core exercises. Although you can order sliders designed for fitness, cheap furniture sliders purchased from a hardware store are just as effective. You may need to buy different kinds of sliders depending on the flooring in your home.

Ross Enamait introduced me to the incredible possibilities of slider training. Watch these videos for ideas on what you can do with sliders. (Note – Ross is also a great guy to check out if you’re interested in building more DIY home gym equipment.)

Door chin-up rig

If you want to get better at chin ups, you have to spend lots of time practicing. Purchasing a door chin-up rig helps you bump up your chin-up volume.

Door rigs can be a single bar or have multiple grip options. Most can be easily removed and stored when not in use. Some rigs can also be used for pushups, modified dips, and other exercises when placed on the floor.

A word of caution – before you buy a door rig, make sure your door frames can support it. Some doorways are too wide or don’t have stable frames. I learned this the hard way when I came crashing down out of an old door frame that couldn’t handle the strain of a chin-up rig. Learn from my mistake and always be careful when hanging or mounting equipment in your apartment or house.

Suspension trainer

A suspension trainer is another effective, minimalist option to train your entire body. TRX is the most well known brand, but there are other, cheaper options which work just as well.

To use a suspension trainer at home, you need a way to mount it on a door, wall, or ceiling. Again, be careful and make sure you can do this safely before investing in the equipment.

Powerblocks

If you really want to level up your home gym setup, you need to invest in weights. Powerblocks are a great option for people used to training with dumbbells or barbells. These adjustable dumbbells allow you to change the weight by adding or removing small plates. You can purchase weights with the potential to be as heavy as 125lbs. Powerblocks take up very little space and essentially replace an entire rack of dumbbells with only two weights.

Powerblocks are the most expensive recommendation on my list, and I wouldn’t recommend purchasing them unless you’re serious about training at home. However, you do get a great value with this purchase. Powerblocks are made well and will certainly last a long time.  

Kettlebells

My final recommendation for your minimal at-home gym is kettlebells. Kettlebells are weights with the load placed beneath the grip, as opposed to on the side like with dumbbells. Kettlebell training has become popular in the last few years thanks to the rise of crossfit and “functional” fitness. You can train every muscle in your body weight a kettlebell and perform certain ballistic and power movements with you can’t do with other types of weights.

The biggest advantage to kettlebells is that you can get away with purchasing just one. This makes kettlebells more cost-effective than other times of weights. I have one 16kg kettlebell at my apartment and I can use it to train every muscle in my body.

However, some people may find your one kettlebell is too heavy for certain movements and too light for others. In that case, I do recommend grabbing a few kettlebells in different sizes so you can have more effective and appropriate training.

Kettlebell training can be more complex than other styles of lifting. You should seek out a qualified coach or take a class to learn the basics. If this is impossible, StrongFirst and Dragon Door are two great places to do some research or seek out instructional materials.

If you’re looking to improve your at-home workouts, purchasing a few small pieces of equipment can be a game changer.

Start with small equipment like bands and sliders.

If you can, hook up a TRX or door chin-up rig.

Finally, if you’re serious about getting stronger or building muscle, invest in some weights that make sense for your setup such as Powerblocks or kettlebells.

Like my client found, this may be exactly the change you need to see renewed progress and start loving your workouts again.

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Limited Funds? You Can Still Get in Great Shape

People mistakenly believe they can’t eat healthy or train hard because they’re on a tight budget. They see expensive gyms and depressingly high grocery bills and feel frustrated, overwhelmed, and defeated. If you’re trying to get in shape for the first time, it can feel like you need a ton of extra cash to pay for the things you think you need to do.

The good news is you actually don’t need a lot of money to eat healthy or work out. Keep reading for some of my favorite strategies to save while chasing your fitness goals.

Affordable healthy eating

The best way to save money while eating healthier is to cook your own food. I love eating out, but restaurant meals rapidly add up in cost and calories. Learning to plan, shop, and prepare most of your meals at home is an invaluable skill and money-saver.

Many people complain about the cost of buying fresh produce and protein. And it’s true that if you shop at fancy organic stores like Whole Foods, you will spend tons of money each week. One of the easiest ways to reduce your grocery bill is to change where you shop.

For years, I have done 95% of my grocery shopping at local international and ethnic food markets. The average cost of both produce and protein is significantly cheaper across the board at these stores. I also find the overall quality of the food I buy at these markets is much better than what I find at standard grocery stores like Jewel, Safeway, or Hy-Vee. My boyfriend and I save thousands of dollars each year doing our shopping at international markets as opposed to some of the more expensive standard grocery stores.

Note – If you live in the Chicagoland area I HIGHLY recommend shopping at one of the numerous Cermak Markets or Fresh Farms International Markets located in the city and suburbs. Those have been my two stores of choice for many years.

You can also reduce your grocery bill by changing what you buy. Start by selecting different kinds of protein. The most popular meats at the store – boneless skinless chicken breast and steaks – are also the most expensive. Choosing less common cuts of meat can save some cash. Here are a few ideas:

  • Choose bone-in cuts over their boneless counterparts
  • Fattier cuts will generally be cheaper than learner meats.
  • Buy large cuts. For example, a big pork shoulder roast is cheap and produces many meals worth of meat. Whole chickens are another delicious way to get more value from your purchase
  • Organ meats such as liver, kidney, tongue, and heart are usually cheap. These underrated cuts of meat are chock-full of nutrients for more adventurous eaters.
  • Eggs and other dairy products (if you tolerate them) are a cheap, healthy source of protein for meat eaters and vegetarians alike
  • For vegetarians, buying dry beans and lentils is extremely cheap. You can cook large quantities of these at once and freeze leftovers for later.
  • Consider buying a bulk protein powder supplement to fill in any gaps in your protein intake.

Finally, if you are very tight on funds, prioritize staples like rice, beans, canned vegetables, pasta, olive oil, and potatoes. These foods contain a surprising amount of nutritional value at a very low cost. In addition, buying your food in bulk can often (but not always) save extra money.

Training for cheap

Expensive gyms with fancy amenities and facilities aren’t necessary to get in great shape. Most cities have a number of discount gyms that offer $10-20 monthly memberships. Although these gyms have more limited equipment and space, they usually contain everything most people need to reach their goals.

If your goal involves getting really strong or jacked, you may need to look for gyms with a wider range of equipment (namely barbells, which most discount gyms don’t have). Take the time to shop around for gyms offering what you need at a reasonable rate. Neighborhood gyms often charge a lot less than larger chains. I trained for years at a small, hardcore basement gym that offered a steep discount rate for young people. I loved the vibe of this gym and did some of my best training there.

Depending on your location and financial situation, joining a gym may be out of the question entirely. The good news is you can train effectively at home or outside with a bit of planning. Check out my article about training on the road for some ideas to structure bodyweight workouts. You can invest in some low-cost equipment like bands, sliders, a kettlebell or two, a door chin-up bar, or powerblocks to dramatically expand your potential at-home exercise options.

If you want to get faster results and avoid the risk of injury, hiring a personal trainer is a great choice. However, training is a luxury often out of reach. Luckily, the internet is full of amazing free or low-cost training programs and other helpful resources. I relied on many of these programs when I was first getting into training as a poor college student. You can buy a really great program for under $100 and most are much cheaper. Make sure you choose a program that is appropriate for your goals, skill level, and equipment. Follow the program as closely as you can for its entire duration to see best results.

Note – Although there is tons of great info out there, the internet is also filled with lots of BS fitness advice. I pride myself on being a great researcher and finding the best of the best in any field I’m passionate about. Please reach out to me here if you want me to direct you to the expert(s) or program(s) I think would be most helpful for your goals and situation.

Getting in shape doesn’t have to be expensive. With a bit of creativity, research, and planning, you can look and feel great without breaking the bank.

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Awesome Gym Tool You Should Use: TRX

My sister is about to embark on a two-year stint living and working abroad. She knows she likely won’t have easy access to a gym and asked me what equipment I recommend to get the most bang for her buck while training at home. This was an easy question for me to answer.

If you are looking for a lightweight, portable piece of gym equipment you can use to train your entire body, look no further than the TRX.

The TRX is a suspension trainer which allows you to use your own bodyweight as resistance on a wide variety of exercises. You can train anywhere as long as you are able to hook up the TRX.

Keep reading for videos and instructions for my top-5 favorite TRX exercises. These can be combined to create a challenging full-body workout at your local gym or halfway around the world.

Inverted row

The TRX inverted row is one of my all-time favorite exercises. I use inverted rows with all of my clients who have access to a TRX. Inverted rows teach you to control your entire body and are easily scalable for different ability levels. They are also great for building strong backs, arms, and shoulders.

To set up for an inverted row grab the TRX handles and remove all tension in the straps. Your arms should be even with your sides with elbows forming a 90 degree angle. Maintain your plank position (straight line from ears to heels) and walk your feet forward until your body is at an angle.

Initiate the movement by lowering your whole body as one unit until your arms are fully extended. Complete the rep by pulling your body back to the starting position. Do not drive your elbows so far back that your shoulder dips forward. You should finish with your elbows at 90 degrees and your upper arms even with your sides. Don’t allow your hips to move or your shoulders to shrug up toward your ears at any point during the rep.

You can make inverted rows more challenging by using a steeper body angle (i.e., moving your feet farther forward). You can also elevate your feet on a box or add external resistance such as chains or a weighted vest.

Pushup

Performing pushups using a TRX is a great way to challenge your core and shoulder stability. Because of the unstable nature of the TRX,  be sure you have good control while doing a  pushup before attempting this variation.

Set up for TRX pushups by getting up on your toes in pushup position. Your feet will be on the floor and your arms will be fully extended beneath you with your hands on the TRX handles. The rest of your body should form a plank with a straight line from ears to heels. Position your hands at 2 and 10 o’clock.

As you lower yourself into the bottom of the pushup, your shoulder blades should move together toward your spine. Aim to keep your hands directly beneath your elbows and your shoulders down away from your ears. When you push yourself back up, reach your arms away from you. The shoulder blades should pull apart at the top. Be sure to maintain a solid plank position as you complete the entire rep. You should not excessively arch your back or stick your butt up to the ceiling.

Like the rows, pushups can be made more challenging by elevating your feet or adding external resistance.

Leg curl

TRX Leg curls are a great way to build strength in your posterior chain (glutes and hamstrings) and core.

Set up for leg curls by lying on your back with your heels in the TRX handles. Initiate the movement by squeezing your butt to raise your hips into a bridge position. Next, curl your heels back toward your body before returning to a legs straight position. If staying in the bridge for the entirety of the set is too challenging, rest on the ground in between reps.

Make these more challenging by a) bending your elbows and lifting your forearms off the ground so only your upper arm is on the ground or b) lifting your entire arm off the ground and reaching up.

Rear foot-elevated split squat

Rear foot-elevated split squats, also known as Bulgarian split squats, are one of the more challenging single-leg exercises. Performing this exercise with the TRX provides a big challenge to your balance and stability. I recommend getting comfortable doing these with your foot on a stationary surface like a bench or box before attempting the TRX version.

Start in the half kneeling position with the front leg at a 90 degree angle and the back foot in one of the TRX handles with the top of your foot facing the ground. Drive through the front heel until you are in the standing position. Lower yourself back toward the ground to complete the rep.

To protect your joints, the front knee must always stay in line with your toe. Drive through the heel of the front foot to increase activation of the glutes and hamstrings. If you struggle with balance, find a focal point in front of you to stare at throughout the entire set.

These can be rather difficult even with no modifications; however, stronger trainees can hold dumbbells or kettlebells for an extra challenge.

Core trio: Jackknife, mountain climber, pike

I couldn’t pick one favorite TRX core exercise so I’ve included three. Try performing all three in a circuit for an added challenge.

Each of these exercises begins in a pushup position plank with your feet secured in the TRX handles. It’s important to maintain this plank position during each exercise. During the jackknives and mountain climbers your body should remain stationary from hips to head. Your butt should never rise toward the ceiling.

Aim to prevent excess movement in your spine during the pikes. Movement should only come from the shoulders and hips.

Whether you are looking for some variety in your gym training or are searching for a way to have more effective workouts on the road, the TRX could be the answer. If you’re interested in learning more tips, tactics, and strategies for training on the road or with a busy schedule, please subscribe to my email newsletter here.